Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Is it REALLY possible?

As I was sitting with the ladies on Q Block tonight discussing our lesson on obedience one lady stopped me and said she had a question. She looked me straight in the eye, her eyes were filled with tears and she asked me point blank, "Is it really possible?" I assumed she was talking about obedience to the word of God so I started to answer her along those lines but she stopped me and asked again but this time with more detail. By this time she had tears streaming down her face when she asked, "Tomi, is it really possible that I can change?" Of course after this question our discussion took a dramatic turn. She explained that this was her 5th time in jail and that she knew Jesus as her savior (she even completed the Winning Track during her last incarceration) but each time she got out she would do good for awhile and then fall away from the things of God. There were many things I wanted to share with her but the examples of the power of God to change someones life that I am most comfortable sharing are my own life experiences. So I shared with her and the rest of the ladies my story of change. I told them that they were looking at a real life example that change is most definitely possible. The most important thing about allowing God to change you is that you never do it alone! I opened up to them about my former self and the life of drug addiction, alcohol abuse and promiscuity that I used to lead. They had a hard time believing me at first but I eventually convinced them that I used to be that person (pretty cool when God transforms you so much that people almost refuse to believe how bad you used to be, huh). Most of our discussion ended up focusing on the importance of having a support team, or Winning Group to keep them on track. All of the ladies already have a relationship with God - now they need a good church home and some one to hold them accountable. We talked the rest of the evening about Winning Groups. I told them about all the different ones we now have at Summit and how I can remember most of the people that were at the first Touch Group I ever attended (Eric, Tomeka, Koby, Danielle, Secily, Cannan, Tabby, and it was at Shelton and Nina Stevens' house). I shared with them that when I got my DUI (six months after I received salvation) Tiffany Shannon picked me up and made sure that I got to church. And when I found out I was pregnant (1 year after I received salvation) it was Pastor that told me I would be a great mom. I would not be where I am today if it weren't for other believers helping me stay on track. So at the end of class I looked at the lady who asked the question and said to her, "Yes you can change! Put God first in your life and surround yourself with people who encourage you to love God more not less (I got that one from you Pastor, thanks) and in no time you will have to convince others of the person you used to be!" There was much much more to our discussion but I think this gives you a decent summary. :-)

Thank you Summit family!!!!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

That was beautiful! That's the love of God being demonstrated. So many people are hurting and need to experience God's unconditional love. Thank God for your ministry Tomi! You are quite an inspiration!

Anonymous said...

Tomi,

That was awesome! God has done an incredible work in you, He is da bomb! That question is still resonating in my head "Is It really possible"? She was asking for her situation in jail but so many believers and non believers are asking the question based upon their set of circumstances and the answer for all of us is, YES!

SharonT

Anonymous said...

Tomi,

I have found that being honest and sharing ones past can really help you in
ministry. While reading your story it reminded me so much of my past life.
I thank God that there was hope and that I could change. People relate so much better with you if they believe that you have walked in their shoes, and that you once were in some of the same situations that they are in now.
Knowing that we are forgiven gives us the freedom to share. It really takes a love for people to expose our past. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself. What a blessing you are. Is it possible? yes it is..

Deborah Brown

Anonymous said...

Tomi,
What a wonderful young woman you are. Not only are you touching the lives of those you're ministering to in person, but also future generations yet to come. I too praise God for you and your ministry.